I used the MCH LEND competencies (listed below) to frame my reflections on my professional growth, my DOE community, the families I serve and my work in policy and advocacy. Here are some of the thoughts I had while reflecting on these areas.
I continue to seek balance in body - mind - spirit. I find this essential to my personal and professional well being.
Physical craves to experience strength, endurance, vigor, fun, play and wellness. Spiritual embraces the interconnectedness of all life and seeks relationship. Mind wants challenge, learning, dissonance, problem solving, creativity and seeks to be engaged. In my professional life - the balance is reflected by - enthusiasm, endurance and “being bamboo”, meaning flexibility rooted in strength.
Know that during the life cycle of a individual and also of an organization there are times of risky behavior and times when you can capture a moment and make lasting change. It is believing in this cycle for yourself, your organization and when helping others - the finding of those unique moments - that is crucial to promoting health and wellness of the individual, of others or of an organization.
It is in knowing that life’s events -the glorious and the tragic - occur for each of us with such ferocity, that we are certain that we are alone and unique in our experience. But in the truth of our shared humanity, our story has played out countless times in countless other lives. It is by embracing this common thread that we are most able to support, to nurture and to love each other.
I believe that we often deceive ourselves about ourselves.
Reflections on my DOE community and the families I serve -
Conscious communication is relaying your message in a way it can be received and responded to by your intended audience and in the way you are able to listen, receive and respond in turn. It is a give and take of respect, not necessarily agreement, but of mutual appreciation and right to individual differences.
Some years ago, my desire was to be the “human face” of Special Education Administration. It is easier to vilify the efforts of a faceless bureaucracy.
Today my desire is to make family involvement more than just a phrase and a compliance measure.
Sometimes you have to agree to disagree.
Negotiation and conflict resolution are beyond skills; they are essential competencies for working with families and professionals. They are also not one and the same.
Relationship is the key to everything.
Cultural Competency is a life- long process. It is not a destination reached once, but a voyage of self discovery that grows in depth and complexity
Cultural competency works for families, organizations, agencies, professions, individuals and systems.
When you are open to it, cultural competency challenges your assumptions and attacks your personal bias.
Every aspect of a person’s life experience is affected by the lens of culture.
Working within systems requires the ability to see both the forest and the veins on the leaf. The interaction of the micro and the macro along with the understanding of how the day to day affects the decade to decade
“The successful MCH leader thinks systemically about the complexity of policy, practice, and research challenges. Personality characteristics and temperament that may aid in this competency include passion, persistence, self-motivation, optimism, flexibility, creativity, charisma, humility, and patience”
To become a change agent at the systems level I need to:
Broaden my network
Become more knowledgeable of MCH systems of funding
Gain experiences by joining
Learn the issues and know the players
Refine a vision
Keep learning and being open
Say yes
Be willing to fail
Be brave and take a stand
My advocacy now is focused on inclusive practices and interventions for all learners.
I. Self
- MCH Knowledge Base / Context
- Self Reflection
- Ethics and Professionalism
- Critical Thinking
- Communication
- Negotiation and Conflict Resolution
- Cultural Competency
- Family Centered Care
- Developing others through Teaching and Mentoring
- Interdisciplinary Team Building
- Working with Communities and Systems
- Policy and Advocacy
Excellent website for expanded understanding of the competencies with resources, definitions, assignments and means to both self assess and assess others in the essential competencies for professionals in the field.
http://leadership.mchtraining.net/